Effective the end of April 2021, I'm done updating my OnlyFans. There's a few reasons why, but the main (and happiest!) one is that things are really busy in my 'day job' and my time and energy need to focus there.
I've got other personal sex industry projects brewing and I'm eager to get back to in-person, so it's likely this isn't the end of my naughty-for-pay days. The next few months my mind and body will be elsewhere, but in 3 months, or 6 months, or a year, life will bring me back.
To new adventures!
This has been the week of devastation in my personal tech realm that resulted in a new start.
First Twitter throttled my old handle (@therealemmariot) so I started up a brand new one that could get a little traction (@riot_emma). It's been wild, seeing the difference between a throttled account with 4000 followers versus an uncensored account with <100 followers - the new one is already streets ahead in terms of engagement. In order to keep from Twitter throttling my engagement, I'm going to have to be more careful about what kind of content I post on Twitter. From what I've gathered so far, they don't really like dildos, especially attached to a person, or any links to OnlyFans. This kind of defeats the whole purpose of using Twitter to promote business, but whatever, I'll work around it by redirecting through my website.
Then my laptop started overheating on the regular, which was progressively getting worse and worse, so I moved everything off of it (20,000 files - holy shit!) and reset to factory settings. That seems to have mostly dealt with the problem for now, so I've at least bought myself some time on that front.
In setting my laptop back up again I've gone ahead and switched over to a couple simple better security options. I've switched browsers away from Chrome to one that blocks ads and trackers and has an option to use Tor (mega-security, super lockdown browsing!). And moving forward I'm storing all my important stuff on external drives, in part to prevent the overheating issue and in part to keep everything more secure.
On top of that, I also somehow found time this week to start spewing out into an online space about a new venture I've had rattling around in my brain, so that's been fun. I'm not committed to following through (yet), but it's been really rewarding to use my business juices to build something new!
All in all, a dynamic week, that feels a lot like new growth after a fire. Like a phoenix, I rise from the ashes.
No, I'm not taking bookings.
The answer to the question of the week!
My day job is covering my expenses. Expenses are down, because it's harder to go out. And I have family in town and at least a couple members of my family are in high risk groups for COVID-19, so I'm not exactly rushing out to take every appointment.
Add on top of that the way I saw people acting like everything's back to normal when I went out to pick up some online purchases from retail stores today and, y'know what, I'm kinda good! I don't believe screening clients will protect me from infection, so I'm going to take the approach that will - not exposing myself to the possibility at all. For now.
I hope I can get back to pegging this summer, because there's an awful lot of craving out there for it, but let's let loose when we can really let loose and make it a special experience!
I use deposits to confirm many bookings and I accept etransfers for payment. Here is guide for how to set up and use etransfers!
You will need to have access to online banking to do this. This is not a guide for how to set up online banking, come back to this if you need to do that.
This is also what my bank's website looks like - yours might look a little different, but similar steps should apply.
Step 1: Go to Interac etransfers
There should be an option for Interac etransfers, which might be under a heading called Transfers. Find this area.
Step 2: Add me to your recipient contacts
Put in my email address (use my contact page to get in touch with me if you don't have it) and set it up to send to my email.
I included my bank's details about etransfers here so you can see something important: it can take up to 30 minutes for an etransfer to send! This is why I prefer advance payment or cash - with my mind at ease, I can better focus on our time together! Another important thing is that, at least for my bank, there is no fee to send an etransfer.
Step 3: Set up the etransfer
Select me, enter the amount to send, pick which account to send from, and include a message if you like! Do not include the password in the message! (next step) Do not reference sexual services, or meeting up, or that this is a payment for something! You can write something nice like, "Thanks!" or "Enjoy!" depending on what you're sending for.
Step 4: Set up a security question
I suggest you use the option to create your own password question, then email or text me what it is. Enter it twice, then press continue.
Confirm the transfer and send!
I'll accept the etransfer and you may see a receipt from your bank confirming that I've received it. The money will be transferred to my bank account.
That's it! :)
!I've been encouraged by a few people now to start a blog, so here goes, and I'm starting where many of my clients do when they're getting to know me: how did I get into pegging?
In my early 20's I briefly worked as a stripper and one day I had a client who bought a private dance from me brought it up. He noticed me because of my strappy black outfit that night, which made me look more dominant or kinky. He asked if I would be interested in stripping, which I was, so we negotiated a fair rate and that he would cover the costs of buying me a harness and dildo. We made our arrangements.
We met up at a friendly feminist sex shop to buy the strap-on, then headed to his boat, where we shared our time together. I had my first prodomme session as a pegging session, making it my gateway to professional kink.
A few years later I went through a breakup and was rediscovering my sexuality when I decided I wanted to explore pegging more. I realized I could charge to do this, so I put up an ad on Backpage and off I went.
That was late 2012 and I've been pegging ever since! I've seen a lot of clients, with a variety of pegging preferences, and I've managed to make it a happy niche for myself!