On soft domme
I'm feeling a lot inspired and a little required to branch out into soft domme - while my decade in pegging has been ultra rewarding, there's an itch I need to scratch around creativity that some new and exciting domme work might hit.
While on the one hand I feel very much a dominant woman (assertive, decisive, ultra-picky), there's aspects of dominance that've been a major turn off for a long time: degradation, serious humiliation (beyond teasing or playfulness), and authentic sadism or cruelty. I've never been inclined that way in my dominance - my dominance seeks to liberate people and build them up, to help them achieve goals and make them more authentically 'themselves'.
It's hard to call someone a 'loser' or 'worthless' when you have great admiration for the courage it took for them to get in touch and book an appointment. They've invested in themselves and their own self growth and self pleasure and I have the utmost respect for that - how can you not?! But to find a place of nurturance and facilitation in that - that sounds incredibly appealing. To be a guide for a person's self-growth and self-exploration - that's what I'm on board for!
And so, to that end, I've gone online shopping and have several books on the way around female domination and topping. I want to find those pathways for my roots to grow or regrow into where the light of female domination shines for me. It's my hope to find my comfort as a dominant woman with submissive men, so we can each find equilibrium in our place in society, in a way that feels resistant and empowering for both of us.
By Emma Riot
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